T O P I C R E V I E W |
Jkitty | In synastry, how often have you noticed that combining both charts results in ALL the houses being filled, where any empty house in a natal chart is filled with a planet from the partner and vice-versa? Curious to know if this is common or unusual and if it has any significance in how important a relationship many be. |
eyes_like_pisces | I imagine its a little challenging because that person might hit a chord or strike new territory your unfimilar with, though if it lasts I imagine it would be like truly completing each other. Just my opinion, I can't say I can think of any synastry where this is especially true ...so I would think it would be very rare. Personally I hate my placements...so many planets in 2nd house Capricorn (i don't see how it benefits me or anyone), others fall in 4th, 6th and 1st. In synastry they tend fall in 6th, 9th, 10th or 11th (sucks). I'd rather have 5th, 7th, 8th, or 12th aspected..empty houses or not. That's just me. |
Jkitty | quote: Originally posted by eyes_like_pisces: I imagine its a little challenging because that person might hit a chord or strike new territory your unfimilar with, though if it lasts I imagine it would be like truly completing each other. Just my opinion, I can't say I can think of any synastry where this is especially true ...so I would think it would be very rare.
I guess so, since only one person responded so far! Anyone else out there run across this? |
charlie | Yes...I've run across it...it's scary because you're looking at the other you. |
Snorkel | quote: Originally posted by charlie: Yes...I've run across it...it's scary because you're looking at the other you.
I'm gonna be honest, I usually either don't like and/or can't relate to, someone who has their planets in all my empty signs. I've never felt like they completed me or like we're on the same wavelength. I only feel that way with people who have planets in the same signs I do. |
StarlightSmileSupreme | Now that would be interesting to see, all the houses filled with at least one planet! Sounds like there would be a lot of aspects though! Very busy lives together! |
Jkitty | quote: Originally posted by Snorkel: I'm gonna be honest, I usually either don't like and/or can't relate to, someone who has their planets in all my empty signs. I've never felt like they completed me or like we're on the same wavelength. I only feel that way with people who have planets in the same signs I do.
But have you also filled all THEIR empty houses as well? Or was it just your empties that got filled? |
Snorkel | quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: But have you also filled all THEIR empty houses as well? Or was it just your empties that got filled?
Off the top of my head no, I don't fill any of theirs. But if their planets taking up my empty houses is supposed to make me feel like they complete me or like there's some special understanding there...it doesn't. I just feel like I can't relate to them at all and annoyed by them as people. It's like trying to mix oil and water, for me anyway. |
Jkitty | quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Now that would be interesting to see, all the houses filled with at least one planet! Sounds like there would be a lot of aspects though! Very busy lives together!
Oh, yah! That describes it very well!! Many DWs and some HDWs, too, even with orbs of 5d or less and only the major planets (no asteroids) used. Not sure about the TOGETHER part though; his saturn on my mercury made me tongue tied! |
Jkitty | quote: Originally posted by charlie: Yes...I've run across it...it's scary because you're looking at the other you.
What happened? |
ELoveCherishEndure | I would love to figure out what would happen. I mean, it hasn't happened to me before, you know? But, there would have to be some kind of age difference or something because it would be really unlikely that someone within your age group could do it (not saying it is IMPOSSIBLE) but if they are from a different generation, it could be part of the pull apart. Sometimes, astrology will not fix basic incompatibility that may come with age difference. |
depth | Filling my empty houses means a lot of opposition aspects. My partner, who's 5 years older, fills my empty 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th. The composite luminaries fill the remaining empty 2nd and 7th. We say our relationship is like that of tom and jerry's. Too much of friction but at the end of the day, it's all hugs and kisses. We're similar yet too different. eg: we both love to travel but for me, if it's the north, for him, it's the south. I'm too self-satisfied for the 'he completes me' feeling.
|
Jkitty | quote: Originally posted by ELoveCherishEndure: But, there would have to be some kind of age difference or something because it would be really unlikely that someone within your age group could do it (not saying it is IMPOSSIBLE) but if they are from a different generation, it could be part of the pull apart. Sometimes, astrology will not fix basic incompatibility that may come with age difference.
Only 4 years difference in the case I'm talking about. The slower moving planets can fall into a different house for you even when in the same sign. |
Jkitty | quote: I'm too self-satisfied for the 'he completes me' feeling. [/B]
I agree; it's more like "he EXPANDS me" feeling. Maybe this is a good thing in a relationship if both people want to grow. |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by Jkitty: [QUOTE]Originally posted by charlie: [b]Yes...I've run across it...it's scary because you're looking at the other you.
What happened?[/B][/QUOTE] We're getting married |
Jkitty | quote: Originally posted by charlie: We're getting married
Awww! Best wishes!! How long have you known each other? |